Hope you don't mind me asking, but If she has strong feelings about looking a certain way, why have her in an outfit and poses that might make her feel uncomfortable? I'm not being snide here, I would be interested to know if it was her idea or if she agreed to it but then had second thoughts. I've done videos where I've written something that was agreed at first, I hammer home that we can change it at the writing stage, then a doubt has crept in and we change it.