I'm trying not to go on an auto rampage, that's why I'm here asking
Everyone, thank you for your help, it's greatly appreciated.
The shallow DOF look is not always the right choice for the shot, and IMHO, has been too exagerated lately just because the camera CAN do it.
And please, please, please, do not crank up the shutter speed to adjust for too much light.
Sorry to butt in, but what are ND/NP filters?
Basically, they're sunglasses for your camera. When shooting video with DSLR's we keep the shutter speed at 1/50 or 1/60 to be close to a 180 shutter. We can not change that along with shooting at 24fps if we want to imitate the film look.
So now imagine you're filming outside during the daytime. Your shutter is at 1/60, you're ISO at 100 and you want to set your lens to 1.2 for a shallow dof. Everything is going to get overexposed and blow out. To counteract this, you can use the appropriate ND filter to reduce the amount of light coming in and properly expose your scene without compromising the settings you want.
Oh, that makes sense. Now what if I want deep dof, because personally, I'm not a fan of shallow dof. I prefer everything in focus unless it requires shallow dof.
OK. Thanks for the help with my newb questions Ernest, very helpful!
Adjusting the distances from camera to subject and subject to background is a huge thing too... it's been mentioned in passing earlier here, but by combining the distances and the aperture + ND techniques, you'll end up with TONS of control over your DOF, both shallow and long.
The camera in closeups on hollywood sets is generally quite near the actors on a 35mm camera... watch the BTS for "Signs" by Shaymalamaman, closeups at the table, the matte box is about 2 - 3 feet from the actor's face.