My first choices are:
1. On Film-Making (Alexander Mackendrick); Heavy on the story, fair amount on setting up shots; not much on directing actors. Lots of examples.
2. Film Directing Fundamentals (Nicholas Proferes); Heavy on blocking and setting up shots. Lots of examples.
3. And... Take an acting class, watch directors in action for stage or film set. --Can someone recommend a really good book on directing actors?
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