Now I've heard about Boujou, but it is hell expensive.
Isn't there freeware/something cheaper that would be able to work as well as Boujou?
It should be able to transfer the moving data between Adobe After Effects CS4, and Autodesk 3ds max 2010.

Seek out icarus

http://www.pfhoe.com/
Very good and cheap - € 79,-

Thank you! :)